We want to be a church known for generosity.  Yesterday we saw two principles that a relationship with God teaches us about generosity, and we’ll see two more today.

What we have is not as important as what we keep

The third principle of stewardship has to do with attitude.  This is a far more important consideration than how much money we happen to have.  Stewardship has far more to do with faith than it does with money.  How we look at what we have is far more important that how much we have.

Peter Marshall, who was chaplain of the United States Senate for many years, shared this true story:
There was a man who struggled to give even though he had a large income. He had long been taught to give 10% of his income away, which is called a tithe.  The man said to Marshall, “I have a problem. I used to tithe regularly some years ago, but…but now…I am earning hundreds of thousands a year, and there is no way I can afford to give ten percent to the church.”

The chaplain said they should pray about it and led off, “Heavenly Father, I pray that you would reduce this man’s income back to the place that he can afford to tithe.“

Like the senator, one of the biggest lies we tell ourselves is that we will begin to give more generously when we have a little bit more.  This is simply not true, the day never comes.  Jesus said that those who are faithful when they have a little will be faithful when they have a lot.

The time to learn giving is when we have a little.  It becomes increasingly difficult as our prosperity increases…remember those cords around our hearts.

How much we give is not as important as how much we keep

One day as Jesus sat in the temple with his disciples people came by with their offerings for the temple. Some of the people were quite rich, and they made sizeable donations.  Among them was a poor widow who dropped in her gift of only a few pennies.  Perhaps someone laughed…Jesus pointed out that this widow had actually given more than all the others.

Seeing their surprise at his remark he explained that all the others given from their wealth.  They still had lots left. But this woman had given out of her poverty.  She had nothing left.  In the eyes of God her gift amounted to more than theirs.  God evaluates things differently from the way we do.  In this matter of financial stewardship it is important for growing Christians to remember how much we hold back is far more important than how much we give.    Once again the issue comes back to whether or not we will allow Jesus to free us from the power of money and are we willing to trust God.

These same questions apply to how we use our time and how much of our time we are using to further God’s work around the world.    How much time do we keep for ourselves and how much time do we give to God and those he loves?

Think of a child’s allowance.  The parents don’t really give a child money because he needs it.  They provide everything he needs.  And they don’t ask him to give to charity, buy gifts for others, etc. because he has too much.  They do it to teach him something, to shape and guide him for the future.

Question: Based on these two stories, what do you think God is training people for?  What’s the end goal?

Reminder: Earlier in this series, we saw the importance of reading the Bible together in sync, so our new daily bible readings start today in our mobile app and web site.

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Ryan Sim - November 26, 2013

Tuesday - Study It - Generosity - in Resources

As we become a church, a community of people learning to follow Jesus in sync even while apart, we are working to be commited to five key things. This week, we’re looking to be commited to generosity in our resources. We want to be known for this as a community. One of the first church leaders, Paul, wrote this to Timothy, who he was mentoring to lead churches after him: As for the rich in this present age, charge them not to be haughty, nor to set their hopes on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy. They are to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share, thus storing up treasure for themselves as a good foundation for the future, so that they may take hold of that which is truly life. - 1 Timothy 6:17-19 ESV We asked yesterday if you knew anyone who worshipped money, and how you could tell. That’s exactly what Paul is warning about here. He doesn’t want the church to be a community where people set their hopes on material things. If we do, we will quickly find they are not eternally safe. Stocks fall, companies bankrupt, mortgages default, technology goes obsolete, and goods rot and rust away. A right attitude about money and posessions doesn't start with rules, principles or anything on this earth, rather it starts with God himself. If you put your faith and trust in him first, you will see money and material differently as a result. We’ll look at four shifts in our thinking: It All Comes from God God is not trying to take money away from us. We are being invited to share in God’s work and to commit our resources to this work. This invitation is always a privilege. It comes from our need for God, not God’s need for us The book Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell says something that Chrsitians have known all along. He looks at highly successful people in our world, and searches for the origins of their success. Not once does he find a self-made person who engineered 100% of their own success. Each had unique opportunities handed to them, that allowed them to excel. This is how Christians have always known our lives to work! This is a shift: We are now managing the money, time and talents that have been entrusted to us by God, in order to make sure that God’s work is done. When applied to personal finances, to how we use our time and our natural skills and abilities, this is an absolutely radical concept. It goes to the very core of who we are and how we see ourselves. We Need to Give The conventional wisdom concerning money is that we have to learn how to hang on to it, not how to give it away. We need to give in order to be free: The seductive power of money is undeniable. But it is disarmingly subtle. In ensnares us without our even being aware of it. It wraps chains around our hearts, our minds, our imagination without our even noticing…. There is only one way. The power of money can only be broken by learning to give it away. The basic question is simply, Will I control my money, or will my money control me ? When we begin to give, the chains begin to break. This can be very uncomfortable, frequently it is painful. Yet once the chains are broken we experience the sheer exhilaration of freedom. Only then do we realize how tightly the chains were wrapped around our heart. Only then can we really understand what Jesus meant when he said, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” We were created to give, not to hoard…Jesus wants us to be free. We need to give in order to find fulfillment: Enough always seems to be just a little bit more than I have right now. A study was done by an economist called George Barna and it shows that most people seriously believe that they need approximately $8-10,000 more a year to live the way they would like to and no matter how much their income increases they still believe they need 8k-10k more. They never find it. People who give of their time and resources in service of others will tell you time and time again how incredibly fulfilling it is…that happiness doesn’t come from wealth, financial or otherwise, but rather because they are happy with what God has given, they are able to be contented and happy in all things, and that is a kind of wealth in itself that overflows into all parts of life. Question: Have you ever found freedom or fulfillment in giving? Why?

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