In the story we’ll read in the Bible today, Jesus is visiting some friends, two sisters in fact, and challenges one sister on her use of time.

Now as they went on their way, Jesus entered a village. And a woman named Martha welcomed him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to his teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me.” But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.”  (Luke 10:38-42 ESV)

This can be a frustrating story.  We can relate to Martha!  Think back to Christmas dinner, did you have a lot to get ready, and did some family member frustrate you by doing nothing?  That sounds like what happens here.

Jesus might have gone a different direction here, right?  He might have told Mary to be more sensitive to Martha’s needs, and go help.  Or, he might have gone to help her himself.  Both would be consistent with Jesus’ teaching and character.

But what he says is “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary.”

It comes down to the goal, the plan.  One thing is necessary, and it’s not what Martha is doing.  Two possibilities:

One option: Martha is concerned with gender roles.  In their culture, Mary should be in the kitchen serving, not learning like a rabbinical student. She’s assumed the posture of a learner, sitting at Jesus’ feet, which was an exclusively male pursuit.

Another option: Martha really is just concerned with a meal to honour the visiting rabbi, but Jesus says at this particular moment, there is a more important goal that should consume her time.

Either way, seems she’s missed the goal.  Jesus is here.  He’s establishing his kingdom, starting with teaching a few individuals, his disciples.  Martha and Mary are invited to be a part of that select group of learners while he’s in their own home.  Mary is sacrificing her place in society, and her time, to sit at his feet, learn and grow as his follower.  Martha is letting those same things get in the way.

The creator of time itself is sitting in Martha’s living room, and she doesn’t give him any.

He is the only one who can create time.  I act that way sometimes.  I leave no travel time between appointments, as if I’ll conjure time out of nowhere.

But, we only have so many hours in the day – time is a finite resource.  We have to choose how to spend them.  Sometimes it’s on life’s mundane tasks, preparing another meal or cleaning up, and sometimes it’s on great visionary stuff like sitting at Jesus’ feet.

One Christian, Martin Luther, said years ago: “Oh, faith is a living, busy, active, mighty thing, so that it is impossible for it not to be constantly doing what is good.“

The question is – what is good?

Question: What makes for a “good” use of time?

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Ryan Sim - October 23, 2013

Wednesday - Change It - Becoming Like Family

Every family has routines and values, and these are closely connected. Take suburban family life as an example. On the surface, we can see routines: wake, eat, drop-off at daycare/school, commute to work, work, commute home, pickup kids, make and eat dinner, get everyone to bed, and repeat. But we have to ask what values are behind that. Why do families move to the suburbs? There are choices, you could live in country, or the city. Why here? For some, it’s where they grew up. Others want to be close to parents, or want their kids to have a yard of a certain size, or to be near nature. Whatever the values, we chose the routine because of those values. Yesterday, we saw Jesus shake up his family routine because he was pursuing a higher value. He called it the will of his Father in heaven. We have called these kingdom values, and it can be distilled down to loving God, and loving neighbour. Jesus is challenging the extended family norms of his day, and replacing them with a new one. A new kind of family. With this new family will come new routines, all because of those founding values. The other direction works, too. We are trying to instill some routines in my family like saying a prayer before a meal (grace), asking our son the best and worst part of day, so we can say thanks to God in prayer, and ask for help or say sorry for the low parts of the day. We also read a Bible story and say a prayer at bed. We do this in hopes that our son will learn some values from those routines. Let’s start simple, and look just at what it means to love God, and love neighbour. Question: Based on the values of love God, love neighbour, what do you think Jesus’ family routines would be like? What could your immediate family’s routines look like?

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