Hi! Welcome to Redeem the Commute. I’m Ryan, your host for the Daily Challenge. Today’s Tuesday; it’s the day we explore in the Bible the topic that we introduced yesterday. We’re in a series called, “Reset” right now, looking at how deciding to follow Jesus resets some really important areas of our lives. We’ve looked at several and this week we’re looking at how it resets our view of family.

So what is family for, if following Jesus comes first in someone’s life?

Does this mean not loving family at all?  No way.  Here’s how Pastor Tim Keller put it: “If we have made idols of work and family, we do not want to stop loving our work and family. Rather, we want to love Christ so much more that we are not enslaved by our attachments.”

One Christian author, Stanley Hauwerwas said: For Christians do not place their hope in their children, but rather their children are a sign of their hope . . . that God has not abandoned this world.”

We can see this in how the Bible set out the requirements for an overseer – a pastor or bishop.   They were written by a church leader named Paul, addressed to his protégé, Timothy.

The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church? (1 Timothy 3:1-5 ESV)

You can see where leadership is supposed to be practiced: at home first, then in the Christian community.  This isn’t saying every leader needs to be married – Paul himself was not.  But if a leader is, they need to be leading at a Christian home already.  The most important line is, “if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church?”

A family is a miniature church of sorts.  Martin Luther said centuries ago ago: “A house is actually a school and a church, and the head of the household is a pastor in his house.”

Family is a place to learn essential skills for Christian living, learn to follow Jesus.  This is one reason among many churches baptize children.  We are celebrating that they are starting school, not graduating.  A Christian family commits to teaching the basics of following Jesus when their child is baptized.

Family becomes a training ground for the kingdom of God.  How does that look in pracitce?  Look at one example from ancient Israel that surely informed early Christians as well:

Deuteronomy 6: 4-9: “Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.”

Their faith was meant to be everywhere in family life, so children encountered it daily.

Question: How do this?  What skills do you think are essential for Christians, and learned in the family?

Read the Bible in Sync Today

Ryan Sim - April 30, 2014

Wednesday - 2014 Status Update - God in Worship

Status Update

Hi, welcome to Redeem the Commute. I'm Ryan, your host of the Daily Challenges. Normally, we follow a weekly rhythm that helps us explore different topic and how following Jesus impacts to that topic. This week is going to be a little different. We're going to be taking an opportunity to just kind of see where we're as a community. Now, you probably know this is a mobile app and website for busy commuters. We're also trying to become a Church community. As we explore what it means to follow Jesus as individual people engaged and in a busy lifestyle. I want to make sure that we're completely disconnected from one another. Even though we're usually quite scattered as a community, we want to take time to gather as well. As a gathered community, we want to make sure that we're committed to some of the same things in common. That's why through this week, this week alone it's going to be kind of a special week. We're going to be looking at each of the things our community is committed to, one-by-one and seeing how we're doing as a community, by hearing the stories of individuals, who are part of our growing online community or in-person courses, who are seeing their lives changed. We hope they'll inspire you to see some transformation on your own life as well. Five things that we're committed to as a community; I'll start with being committed to growth in discipleship. We have some common content to learn together. We also want to be committed to God in worship, committed to generosity in our resources, committed to grace in our lifestyles and witness, and finally, committed to groups in community. Well, today is Wednesday. As part of our commitment this week to looking at the five things that the Redeem the Commute community is meant to be committed to as it becomes Redeemer Church, today we're looking at how we want to be committed to God in worship. When we had a baptism service, about a month ago, we had a number of people come out and experienced the Redeem the Commute community for the first time in-person. One of those people came to the service, heard some inspiring music, heard me speaking on grace and baptism, and afterwards, came right up to me and said, "Wow, why don't we do this all the time?" That was really encouraging to hear. I'm quite ready for it, but the fact that somebody wants that is a really good sign that we're on the right track as a community. We're learning what it means to follow Jesus, those who are ready to actually worship Him as Lord and Savior. That's really where we've headed as a community. It's the fullness of Church. Church includes the opportunity to meet regularly to worship God, sing songs, pray together and learn together as one large group community, not just small groups. When you hear the word "Church," what do you think about it? You probably think of a building, right? Or maybe an institution or denomination or weekly event that people go to. I can't really blame you. That's one way the word can be interpreted in the English language. There is much more to the word "Church" than that. Church community is actually a word from … The word "Church" actually comes from the Greek, "Ekklesia," which means gathering of people called out for a specific purpose. See, there is a gathered mode. They're gathered community of people. They're also called out for a purpose. They have a job to do out in the world. I think this describes a community of people who are gathered, so they can be scattered. Both modes are important for the Church. I know our mind usually goes to the gathered mode first, but we need to make sure Church communities are effective in the scattered mode as well. That's what we're going to try to be as a Church community. As Redeem the Commute becomes Redeemer Church, we want to make sure that we're effective in scattered mode first, that we're learning to follow Jesus on our own through our website and mobile app that we're praying, that we're gathering together in small group communities. Then, we're going to start gather together for large public worship occasions, starting this fall. At least every month, we're going to start meeting regularly, just to worship God, learn together, pray together, sing songs together. That's going to be the gathered mode of worship for us as a community. We can be effective both in gathered and scattered mode. Now, to be ready for that kind of ambitious goal of meeting regularly for worship starting this fall, it's going to take an army of volunteers and people who are gifted in various things like music, children's ministry, who are good welcomers, who are good in technology, things like that. It's going to take a number of volunteers. To be honest, we haven't met enough yet. If you're one of those quiet people watching Redeem the Commute's content, you haven't reached out yet to let me know that you're part of our community that you'd want to come in-person to worship with us, and you have those kinds of gifts that I'd love to hear from you. Like I said, we need those who are gifted in music, those who are gifted with technology, those who are gifted in welcoming and serving others, making a good cup of coffee, maybe, and those who can simply let us know they're going to be part of this community as it starts to meet together regularly for worship. We need to know that you're committed to being a part of this before we take the huge risk of actually going ahead and launching a regular worship services. This is a very strange way to start a Church. Normally Churches start gathered, start just having services and then eventually you try to get people to be followers of Jesus for the rest of the week. We've gone about the opposite way. We started by paying attention to Monday to Friday and Saturday, and now, we're going to add Sunday to our routine. We need your help to do that. I'd love to hear from you. That's why your challenge today is to fill in our worship survey. You'll find a link to it right at the bottom of today's content. Let us know. Leave your email address, please, so we can get in touch if you'd like to be involved, or just let us know what kind of worship experience is going to best help you worship God as part of this community. That's your challenge for today to complete that survey, maybe talk with your group first if you're meeting regularly with a group, talk over what kind of worship experience would be best for you. It makes sense for you to how children in worship with adults or to have children's ministry as a separate occasion from adult worship. How long would the speaking be? Where it would be held, in a Church building with a steeple or in public space? Those are the kinds of questions we have on our worship survey.

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