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CloseMarriage Course - September 17, 2012
Day 31 - The Healing Process - Identify The Hurt
• take the initiative to resolve anger and heal hurt
• recognize the ways in which you have caused pain to your partner and hurt your marriage (see Matthew 5: 23-24 in the Bible)
• be prepared to tell your partner when you have been hurt (see Matthew 18:15 in the Bible)
Question:Complete the Worksheet found under "Study Guide"
Related Topics: Forgiveness, Healing, Marriage | More Messages from Marriage Course | Download Audio
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Reactions to hurt
1. Anger
- some are like rhinos-they attack when provoked
- some are like hedgehogs-they withdraw when threatened
2. Retaliation
- to let our partner know what the hurt felt like
3. Fear
- we withdraw so as not to be hurt again
4. Guilt
- hurt will always be caused by both partners
Identify whether you are a rhino or hedgehog. If you’re not sure, ask your partner.
