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CloseParenting Children - September 6, 2012
Day 23 - Setting Boundaries Part I
Right and Wrong Choices
• teach the difference between acceptable and unacceptable behavior
• explain the consequences - pleasant for good behavior and unpleasant for crossing the boundary
• tell them that the choice is theirs
• teaches them to take responsibility for their own actions
• reward “right choices” with descriptive praise
• use a "star chart” or the equivalent for persistent issues
• have negative consequences for "wrong choices.”
Question:
What can help you reinforce “right choices”? What consequences can you put in place for “wrong choices”?
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| Day 9 – The Importance of Bonding | August 21, 2012 | Watch | Listen | ||
| Day 10 – The Importance of Establishing Routines | August 22, 2012 | Watch | Listen | ||
| Day 11 – Bedtimes | Parenting Children | August 23, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
| Day 12 – Introduction to the Love Languages | August 24, 2012 | Watch | Listen | ||
| Day 13 – Introduction to the Love Languages II | Parenting Children | August 25, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
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| Day 16 – Love Language – One to One Time | August 28, 2012 | Watch | Listen | ||
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| Day 19 – Summary of the Love Languages | Parenting Children | September 1, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
| Day 20 - Combining Love and Limits - Why Boundaries Matter | Parenting Children | September 3, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
| Day 21 - The Challenges of Setting Boundaries | Parenting Children | September 4, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
| Day 22 - Where do we set boundaries | Parenting Children | September 5, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
| Day 23 - Setting Boundaries Part I | Parenting Children | September 6, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
| Day 24 - Setting Boundaries Part II | Parenting Children | September 7, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
| Day 25 - Helping Children Make Good Choices Part I | Parenting Children | September 8, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
| Day 26 - Helping Children Make Good Choices Part II | Parenting Children | September 9, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
| Day 27 - Helping Children Make Good Choices Part III | Parenting Children | September 10, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
| Day 28 - Helping Children Make Good Choices Part IV | Parenting Children | September 11, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
| Day 29 - Modeling and Practicing Relationships - The Power of Listening | Parenting Children | September 12, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
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| Day 37 - Helping our children manage their anger - Older children Ages 5-10 | Parenting Children | September 20, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
| Day 38 - Teaching our children to manage their anger | Parenting Children | September 21, 2012 | Watch | Listen | |
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- our words can affect how our children think about themselves for the rest of their lives
- don’t give praise indiscriminately – look for attributes and actions to commend them for
- words of affirmation build them up and will affect their behavior and achievement
- practice commending for success more than criticizing for failure
- correct mistakes without condemning the child
How natural do you find it to speak affirming words to your child(ren)? What helps you as a parent to give more praise than criticism?
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