Marriage Course - September 12, 2012

Day 26 - The Importance of Shared Faith

When we expect our partner to meet all our needs, We inevitably fail each other and get hurt, causing our marriage to spiral downward.

When we look to God to meet our needs for significance, security, and self-esteem, we are better able to give to each other.

Praying Together

• helps us connect with each other in a meaningful way
• ensure prayers are vertical, not horizontal and manipulative
• five to ten minutes a dad is better than one hour every month
• ask each other, What can I pray for you today?"
• accept the same requests day after day
• draw on God's promises from the Bible and start with thankfulness
• don't give up even if you have young children
• the closer each of us is individually in our relationship with God, the closer we are to each other as husband and wife
• if one has upset the other, say sorry before praying
• be deliberate and plan it into your schedule
• if you're not comfortable praying, find other ways to connect and support each other on a daily basis

Question:Ask your husband or wife if there's one thinq they’re concerned about at the moment. Then if you are comfortable prayinq, pray for each other. Otherwise, express your support in some other way.

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Slide7The Bible is God’s way of speaking divine words in human language, through human authors.

Now you may wonder, how can I trust the Bible?

For the sake of time, we can’t get into a lot of depth, but we will take a brief look at the part of the Bible that focuses most directly on Jesus – the gospels or biographies of Jesus.  These are the most often disputed books of the Bible, as some will challenge if it accurately records what Jesus said and did.

The first copies of the NT biographies of Jesus were written by those who knew him directly, or kept records for those who did: Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.  Other books were written by those who knew those who knew Jesus, or encountered him after he died and rose again, for example Paul, who wrote most of the NT.  But we will focus on the biographies, or gospels.

We know they wrote these biographies after the death and resurrection of Jesus (about AD 29) and before AD 100. All the books in our NT were written in the first century – when there would have been people still alive who knew Jesus – or at most one generation away from those who knew Jesus – during his earthly ministry.  These books were written too early for legendary, self-serving material to creep in to the accounts – because an eye witness could have easily objected.

Another good question: How do we know that what someone wrote in the first century is what we are reading in the 21st?

We have many manuscripts of the New Testament from very early on – within 3 centuries of the resurrection.  That may not sound like much, but we have more copies of those books than any other historical document, and there are very few human copying errors.   Almost all of the errors that exist are insignificant – word order, grammar, etc.  Less than 1% of variations in Biblical sources have anything to do with Christian teaching…make for fascinating debate about minutiae, rather than outright rejection of the whole thing.

There have been some other books written, that were clearly self-serving, or filled with legends, that were written too late, or rejected by those who knew Jesus’ teachings first or second hand.

Those are a couple quick answers to important questions, but we’ll explore more of how the Bible works, who wrote it, and what role it plays in Christian faith in the course that follows C101, called Following Jesus.

But for now, we’ll explore the Bible as it is, see how God reveals himself there.  That’s why your home work for this course is to start reading the Bible – whatever you have heard, or think about the Bible before, it’s best to know the material first hand so you can make informed decisions!

Have you ever read some of the Christian Bible before?  Did you trust it?  Why or why not?  What would you trust?

Read John 1-2 and write down what you’ve learned about Jesus.