8. Work together
When both parents are involved:
• agree on a strategy (may require compromise)
• be consistent
• support each other
With other parent only:
Question: Can you think of an issue where you could work together more effectively as parents? Discuss the issue and try to agree on a joint approach. Brainstorm and write down a few ideas. Then choose one to try out, and review it after a few days or weeks.
don’t use idle threats – only give warnings that you can follow through with work out effective consequences
A few days ago we asked about a difficult disciplinary situation for your family. What principles from these sessions are most helpful in your situation?
