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CloseParenting Children - September 6, 2012
Day 23 - Setting Boundaries Part I
Right and Wrong Choices
• teach the difference between acceptable and unacceptable behavior
• explain the consequences - pleasant for good behavior and unpleasant for crossing the boundary
• tell them that the choice is theirs
• teaches them to take responsibility for their own actions
• reward “right choices” with descriptive praise
• use a "star chart” or the equivalent for persistent issues
• have negative consequences for "wrong choices.”
Question:
What can help you reinforce “right choices”? What consequences can you put in place for “wrong choices”?
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From Series: "Parenting Children Ages 0-10"
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1. Don’t compare
- value each child for his/her uniqueness
- avoid labeling
- don’t make one look good by putting another down
What could help you listen effectively to your child(ren) particularly when they are expressing negative emotions such as hurt, anger, disappointment, or sadness?
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