self-confidence is built through knowing we are loved
self-confidence enables us:
• to be different when we need to be
• to build close relationships
• our children have “emotional tanks" which need to be kept full
• their behavior acts as the gauge showing the level in the tank
Question: What are the signs of an empty “emotional tank” in your child(ren)?
Home is a place where teenagers learn how to build healthy relationships.
Teenagers learn to relate through observing adult relationships
If parenting together, invest in your relationship (take our marriage course!)
If parenting on your own, build the best relationship you can with the other parent, when possible
Nurture other adult friendships
Mealtimes together – teenagers learn to talk, listen, debate issues, and respect others’ views
Regular family time – having fun together ias a family helps build relationships between parents and children and between siblings (consider having a weekly “family night”)
How can you intentionally model healthy relationships with others in your life, for your teenager to learn from?
